Have Sex Like a Porn Star: Achieve Difficult Sex Positions

Are you looking for a new sex position, something wild, crazy and original? Well, there are really 3 types of sex positions.

  1. Those that you do over and over and have left you looking for something new. Probably how you ended up here.
  2. Those that you see on websites that have crazy names and drawings of stick figures that leave you scratching your head and wondering if it is even possible or how you would do that without a broke penis.
  3. Those that you saw in a movie one time and you thought it was really hot, but you and your partner are not fitness models, flexible, strong, 90 pounds, etc. So those positions as hot as they may remain in fantasy because the difficulty level is just too high.

Well, I am here to help. I am going to help you turn that difficult to achieve a fantasy position into your new favorite reality.

In this article, we are going to take some of the hottest positions and most search positions from movies that the average person can't do and tell you how you can make it a reality.

People sometimes ask, why do you need a sex swing? What can a sex swing really help me do that I can't in my bed? Well, this is my reality – I am not 90 pounds, I am not even under 140 pounds and my husband is not a bodybuilder. And even if we both were the buffest ones at our gym, we both want sex to last longer than about 1 minute, and a swing can help to support people in positions for long periods of time that would not normally be possible.

First up, however, there are different kinds of sex swings and they have different uses. Since different positions serve different fantasies, you can buy a swing specific to what you want to do, or you can follow my recommendation here and get a couple of things that will work together to create all of the options.

  • Screamer Dual Hook Swing – The Screamer swing is the most popular and most comfortable swing. The main advantage of this swing for our purpose here is the removable straps. This allows the swing to be used in ways many other swings can not.
  • Squatting Attachments – The squatting attachment is used to achieve the popular squatting cowgirl and reverse cowgirl positions.
  • Door Mounts – Using door mounts with the straps from the Screamer you can convert the swing to a door swing for use in things such as the sex against the wall.

Of course, these are just recommendations of a complete package that works well together. There are other options and each will be discussed with the different sex positions you are trying to replicate.

Squatting Sex: Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl

So in your favorite porno, you probably have come across squatting position. This is kind of like the normal cowgirl position or the reverse cowgirl position. Except instead of the girl being on her knees, she stands above her partner, often with heels, and lowers herself to a squat position. This position has a great range of motion and is very popular for viewing.

Unfortunately, squatting is not that easy. Especially when you need to do it for potentially many minutes without ever standing upright to stretch your legs.

But no worries, this position can work with the squatting attachments. These attachments are designed to give you a little boost by providing an extra 90 pounds of lift or so. How many squats could you do if you were suddenly 90 pounds lighter?

squatting sex, overcome this difficult sex position with these attachments


For a full guide on this position and attachment, I recommend reading our squatting attachment tutorial.

Sex Against the Wall

According to a poll in Cosmo, men and women voted sex against the wall as the sexiest position. This position is near the top in erotic fantasies because it has all the required elements such as impulse, power and submission and uniqueness. But it also has the typical problems. It is a difficult position to pull off. Even in the Cosmo article, they talk about strategies to actually accomplish the position and then go on to say even if you are fit, you will only last a short time. So to me, that sounds like a big no-go.

a door swing would make sex against the wall easier


Then you see things like the man reaching up and holding the girls arms pinned against the wall above her head. Hmmm… if his hands are on hers above her head, who is holding her? Are they still having sex? Can she wrap her legs around him and still actually move?

Well, to solve all of these problems and make this one a reality, all you need is a door swing. Here you will have options of a deluxe version and a standard version. These are discussed at length in our door sex swing page.

sex against the wall made easy.

Just like that, you can now achieve positions that you thought were impossible. With a sex swing and you can hold the position for hours, have your hands free for groping, tearing close off or restraining each other. Check out all of the sex swings for sale and other creative sex swing positions